tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2228959789144767873.post5521663459232956643..comments2023-10-09T06:24:41.739-04:00Comments on 2009 Dating Naked: Dating Naked, Love, NOT EnoughDating Nakedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01867044730293367700noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2228959789144767873.post-77260691428798003602009-09-27T13:57:09.930-04:002009-09-27T13:57:09.930-04:00Good blog. Food for thought. I know I've had...Good blog. Food for thought. I know I've had some relationships where they ended for a mature unworkable reason. That's why I say I wait awhile to tell someone I love them. I have waited months and months in the past and I've never said it within weeks. To me telling them that I love them before I know if it's workable it's like not knowing that I'm in love.<br /> Like when people have something that really works they continue to fall everyday that they are together. Sometimes people fall just a little on the surface and then find out something that wakes them up alittle. That's when you might regret saying you love them because you realize you either don't or you stop falling right there. That wake up call brings you back to reality. It tells them it's not gonna be the lala land love that you thought it might be. Sometimes these are things that we see as a problem because of past experiences and sometimes they are simply misconstrued reality. Everybody to a degree lives outside of reality as you get to know someone. That's what getting to know a person is.<br /> The people I know who fall in love really easily or fast often sound like they didn't really know the person and then as they did they realized it was only on the surface and not really real. The only way someone can truly love someone and especially on a romantic level is by really knowing them and loving them with those things that make them who they are whether you like those aspects or just accept them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2228959789144767873.post-49075802093676003372009-09-27T00:19:23.646-04:002009-09-27T00:19:23.646-04:00Maybe, but I really do believe we meet people we l...Maybe, but I really do believe we meet people we love...but we have only one great love.. And if you are unsure. I think that's telling Steph. I think brides with cold feet, should get the hell out of Dodge. I think guys with questions, should speak up. I just believe...we meet lots of people we will love...but we only get a few great ones who we few as forever...the problem with that. We if we never meet them? <br /><br />What if...we get scared and get married to the closest thing to it. I think that's what we have all been doing...because no one wants to grow old alone.Dating Nakedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01867044730293367700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2228959789144767873.post-33476399315176122512009-09-27T00:07:43.334-04:002009-09-27T00:07:43.334-04:00I guess it's possible that sometimes you can f...I guess it's possible that sometimes you can fully love someone and it just not be enough. But I think if it's really love you find a way to make it work. Most of the time when it's just not enough it's because one of you has that unsettled feeling that this just isn't right. In other words, "You're just not that into her!"Stephanie Farishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10461865229341760836noreply@blogger.com